Don't we all like a good challenge relationship wise? Who wants to have their significant other wrapped around their finger starting day 1? I don't know how to explain it but i don't want her all over me from the start. I want to work for it, because if you give too much to soon the other person will get bored and will eventually move on. This is the way i look at it, i want to work for her attention and her affection. So would you rather have a guy/girl give you all they have up front or would you want to a good challenge?
I used to be the person who gave it all up front and it does work don't get me wrong. Just it got boring real fast maybe i got too complacent. During this past relationship we both made each other work for attention and affection and what not. There was always fun joy and no boring moments because we both had to work for each other. So from now on i want a challenge not a hard one just don't give yourself to me right away.
If it doesn't make sense im sorry just it's been on my mind lately. Please comment away because i want your opinion on this subject whether you want a guy or girl to give themselves to you right away!
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I agree that you need a bit of a challenge to make it worth while. If you give yourself away up front, neither person has much to look forward to. At the same time, if you hold back for too long, someone will get bored.
I agree. It adds to the mystery too. You don't always want to know exactly what the other is going to do all the time.
heck yeah ! its the game of dating !! the person needs to work for you make you know he is serious , there needs to be mystery and all that jazz. If you are to easy and someone that is easy to mulipulate then your not much fun - If you give it all away asap then neither peson has something to look forward to
hope you have an amazing weekend - oh and to answare your comment you left me i wasnt done with eatting so i had like 1500 cals that day lol i dont think most ppl can function off of 600cals and i have kids that i am running after i need to eat lol